Failure : Don't fear it!

A great man once said "Don’t fear failure. — Not failure, but low aim, is the crime. In great attempts it is glorious even to fail."

Failure is a natural part of learning but I have been running from it for a long time. I never realized that I could have learnt a lot by failing instead of getting success at first attempt. This was because I insisted on doing things that I believed I can do and not the things that I could do but just because I would be a laughing stock or embarrassment I ignored and walked away from it. But what did I gain from it....ABSOLUTELY NOTHIN!!!

I know Life is not fair and it will never be but why do we want life to be fair to us and not to everybody. It is how we have been seeing things and running away from it. Do not go for the easy life instead choose the path with difficulties and then only you will figure out that there is a lot to be learned while attempting and failing then just merely pretending to be successful and happy.
So the first thing that you need to do with your life is set goals. Once you have set your goals go out and start working for it. You might get blocked, pulled back, or even end up failing but here's the catch- In the process of attempting to reach your goals you might have failed but at this point you have gained a lot of knowledge and details that you can use for the rest of your life. So Learn to enjoy your failure as well. 

Failure and success both are two sides of a coin, until you see both the sides you might never be able to conclude anything .It's never too late to start over and If you weren't happy with yesterday, try something different today. Don't stay stuck. Do better and do it now! It's never too late for anything but unless you have that fear in you, you are getting no where my friend! So take off that fear thing from you, lose all your worries, speak your heart. Plan, set up goals, walk, run, do anything and everything you want but do not stop or hold your self back. Let fear drive you insane, enjoy it because like everything else it will also pass. Nothing is permanent and nothing will be, so why fear? Just get out there and start living your dreams.

If you want a life worth living then all you need is a life worth telling. But if you fear or hold yourself back then you are not giving up your everything. You give something to get something- This is the ultimate rule of nature and this will be the only rule that you need to follow to get where you want from where you are. So if you are not happy with what you are doing, if you are not fulfilling and pursuing your dreams, if fear has failed you, then challenge your life again. Let the fear of failure make you more strong and help you to reach where you want to be.

"Don't Judge yourself with the words of others. Remember there is no one better than yourself who knows you from inside out. Don't let people rule your head."

How you see it?

There are quite a lot of successful people in this world but it is not about them, it is about their success that you are running after and most of us do not see the hard work they have been going through to achieve that success. Remember this "NOTHING COMES FREE OF COST". You have to sacrifice something in order to get back something.

Things have always been like this and will always be, it is how you want to see it, rather then seeing it from other's eyes. So the first thing that you need to understand is that you are willing to work on yourself rather than working for what other's think of you. Once you start knowing yourself you will find some talents that you never knew you had which could help you locate what you want to chase in life. Success is what everyone wants but the definition of success may vary with everyone and this variation is mainly because of our personalities and thinking.

You just need to realize this that there is no one better than you who can know yourself and understand your needs. Everyone can talk about success and successful people, it is with the one who keeps working on his goals that get their success. Most of us fail in life because we lack motivation and planning. Yes, motivation is important but planning is requirement because without setting up your boundaries and conditions you will end up in loops circling around your goals but never achieve it.

Make a lot of small goals and keep pushing yourself forward. Reward yourself with something for completing each of your goals and make a blueprint of your bigger goals that you want to achieve in life. The small goals will keep you motivated and it will push you beyond your limits while the bigger goals are the one's that will take time and smaller goals help you to achieve it.

PLAN IT BIG ENOUGH TO KEEP YOURSELF MOVING FORWARD.

Once you are done with planning and setting up your goal you will start understating yourself better than anyone and then you can achieve success at a higher rate. See everything through your eyes not blindly follow up some path. Keep learning about yourself and improve yourself everyday. It is you who will make all the difference to yourself and people around you.

Thanks.

The Real Characterstics Of Successful People

Do it now or it will never be done.

There has been quite a number of times when we really wanted to do something but before we even begin we just moved on to a different thought and regret  at a later stage. You know why you have not been successful because you haven't taken the steps yet and I am sure everyone has a dream that they want to grow but what is the real difference between a successful and an unsuccessful man. A successful man is willing to spend that extra time for his work, for his efforts, he never quits until he gets his job done but an unsuccessful man is the one who is bored, not willing to give that extra push and is negligent.

Successful people have these great characteristics. Let me list them one by one :


1. They control their Mind : If you have control of your thoughts and you have the power to control your mind, then there is nothing that is going to stop you from achieving your goals. A successful man has this quality, he controls his mind and thoughts. Once your mind starts creating the pictures of your success in your mind then you are already half way to your goals. Once the mind sees the pictures that you want, it will direct you towards it.

2. They are hard working : If you think a successful man is just being lucky, then you are wrong my friend. A successful man knows what hardworking can pay him off and that is why he is never afraid to give all of his efforts for achieving his goals. Sure there are lots of short cuts but remember the short cuts will eventually lead you in troubles. Never try to fall for any short cuts, it wont help you in any ways.

3. They are willing to sacrifice: Successful people are always willing to sacrifice that extra time they would have watched Tv or played football or anything and devote that time to their goal. In fact if you truly want to become successful you must even give up sleep because sometimes your sleep is also a major cause of your failures. You must be willing to sacrifice that one extra hour of sleep and ready to work.

4. They never give up: Many people are hard working and want to be successful but they lack patience. Winner never give up until they get what they have been working for but to many when the success is about to hit they, they simply quit. It's that one moment that can change your life forever but you must be willing to wait and not quit. Successful people never give up on their dreams and they constantly try to move up. They never think of quitting, instead they focus more with time and that is what makes the whole difference.

Get out of your comfort zone and you will then find the talent and ability that has been hidden inside you. You must be willing to leave your comfort zone and then only the magic can happen. Once you are out of your shell you will be astonished at how good you can be at something.

Good Luck with your Success!!!

The Role of Emotions in Life

I might have some experiences like everybody else but recently I had the best experience of my life. This was always with me but I never figured it out and many of us are unaware of this simple truth about life. What is it?

The Emotions! Yes we grow emotionally every day and it is due to this emotional nature of human being that we are constantly growing and reaching greater depths. Emotions can be anything from rage to happiness, from good to bad, from high to low's etc...but we never look back to track down why we had that particular emotion at that instant. Once you figure out your own emotions you are already one step closer to knowing yourself. Congratulations!!!

Now once you figure out how you behave, the next thing that needs to be done is controlling it. The best part about the control of emotions can be seen with Meditation. The amount to time you give to Meditation is the amount you know yourself better. So as simple as it may sound you can start discovering yourself right now.

Know your emotions and learn from them so that you can use them effectively. Now coming back to my story let me tell you how things were before I learned this simple truth about life that emotions can guide us to where we want to be. I was stubborn(I am still trying to get normal..), irrational and unaware of my situation. I literally had no idea where my life was heading and then one fine evening I decided to go to a party with a few of my friends and then after a few drinks I was presented with the best gift of my life- Criticism.

Never in my life I had realized that I had become so unrealistic that I started to ignore things and was happy with myself, with whatever I was getting and then it stuck me and it stuck me real hard when my own friends had lost faith in me, criticized me and told me that I was no good. This made me feel real bad and I mean it because I was about to take hard decision in my life. The more I thought about it the more i wanted to get rid of it, the words were not getting out of my head and then I made the decision to give up and end this miserable life.

The moment was very near I had made up my mind and then another thought stuck me that stopped me from doing what I was about to do. The same words of criticism now acted as barriers to not quit but to give my life a purpose and try again. I tell you this was one of the best moments I had in my life and I was so much happy about it.

I ended up with whatever nonsense I was doing with my life and started to establish a routine and a road map of where I would like to see myself someday. I know what I need to do now and soon it will be done and if not I will give it one more try and then one more....I have now more faith in myself, more confidence and I do not fear if I fail. Nothing matters to me now, I want to succeed and I will succeed.

I hope you to see you find your path soon.

Thanks for reading... 

Life as Maths Equation

I Love Maths and I know  a lot of people hate it. But what if I can tell you that you can make your life simple using maths. Yes!!! you read it absolutely correct that you can solve your life equation with maths.

Everybody dreams for a good life and that is fine until we are about to give up on it. Everything is achievable through innovation and ideas. Imagination is everything you need to create something. Most of us are so engrossed in doing things we don't like for those we don't like but still we compromise with life everyday.

Remember when we were given the simple equation like a=2a-3 and we could easily calculate the value of a. In a similar fashion you can solve life equations too. So what you need is a simple equation that can show you your life equation and then you just need to solve it your way to get the result. The only difference between maths and life equation is in the maths equation you will get the same result but in the life equation you may or may not get the same output. So the result is totally depended on you, on what choices you make and how you make it.


Being a student we all have come across a lot of maths equations and have solved a lot of them but why can't we solve our life problems with maths. Remember that "X" that use to give nightmares when we were not able to get the value of it but then there was someone who could easily solve the equation. So I started looking for solutions to life using maths and maths being one of the most important parts of my life this is what I got.

Suppose "X" is life , "Y" is time, "Z" is your passion with "D" being the distraction. Now using this I have derived this formula that is true for everybody.

                                      X = Z^Y-D

Now let us examine these values in detail.

For any equation to be balanced you need to know the value of each of the variables. Without understanding how to find these values you will not be able to find the true value of "X".

And like maths equations should be balanced..i.e...L.H.S=R.H.S, life also needs to be balanced. So to find the true value of "X" let us examine the factors on which life will depend on.

The 1st thing that will influence our life equation is passion i.e "Z". To find Z it might take you some time and if you still have not figured it out then my friend it's time that you start asking yourself what is that one thing that you want to do without second thoughts. If you have found your passion then its time to increase your Y. Yes, even though you might know what you are passionate about you might not succeed because you are not giving time to it. So X is directly proportional to Z and Y. The faster you find you passion and the more amount of time that you are willing to put into it the more effective will be the end result and that will last for long.

Now let us come to the final variable "D". This is very important because this is what will decide how much you are willing to put your passion and time to get your life. D is distraction and if you are able to minimize it (better to make it 0) then my friend you are just 1 step closer to your successful life. So D is inversely proportional to X which means the more disturbances the less stable life and the less disturbances the more simplified life.

Life is simple and the choice is all depended on you. First Find Z, increase Y and remove D, the result will be a simplified X.

I hope this helps you!!

Good Luck with solving your life equation. Make it count!!

Thanks for your time and I hope you did learn something valuable today. Please comment if you like.