Failure : Don't fear it!

A great man once said "Don’t fear failure. — Not failure, but low aim, is the crime. In great attempts it is glorious even to fail."

Failure is a natural part of learning but I have been running from it for a long time. I never realized that I could have learnt a lot by failing instead of getting success at first attempt. This was because I insisted on doing things that I believed I can do and not the things that I could do but just because I would be a laughing stock or embarrassment I ignored and walked away from it. But what did I gain from it....ABSOLUTELY NOTHIN!!!

I know Life is not fair and it will never be but why do we want life to be fair to us and not to everybody. It is how we have been seeing things and running away from it. Do not go for the easy life instead choose the path with difficulties and then only you will figure out that there is a lot to be learned while attempting and failing then just merely pretending to be successful and happy.
So the first thing that you need to do with your life is set goals. Once you have set your goals go out and start working for it. You might get blocked, pulled back, or even end up failing but here's the catch- In the process of attempting to reach your goals you might have failed but at this point you have gained a lot of knowledge and details that you can use for the rest of your life. So Learn to enjoy your failure as well. 

Failure and success both are two sides of a coin, until you see both the sides you might never be able to conclude anything .It's never too late to start over and If you weren't happy with yesterday, try something different today. Don't stay stuck. Do better and do it now! It's never too late for anything but unless you have that fear in you, you are getting no where my friend! So take off that fear thing from you, lose all your worries, speak your heart. Plan, set up goals, walk, run, do anything and everything you want but do not stop or hold your self back. Let fear drive you insane, enjoy it because like everything else it will also pass. Nothing is permanent and nothing will be, so why fear? Just get out there and start living your dreams.

If you want a life worth living then all you need is a life worth telling. But if you fear or hold yourself back then you are not giving up your everything. You give something to get something- This is the ultimate rule of nature and this will be the only rule that you need to follow to get where you want from where you are. So if you are not happy with what you are doing, if you are not fulfilling and pursuing your dreams, if fear has failed you, then challenge your life again. Let the fear of failure make you more strong and help you to reach where you want to be.

"Don't Judge yourself with the words of others. Remember there is no one better than yourself who knows you from inside out. Don't let people rule your head."

How you see it?

There are quite a lot of successful people in this world but it is not about them, it is about their success that you are running after and most of us do not see the hard work they have been going through to achieve that success. Remember this "NOTHING COMES FREE OF COST". You have to sacrifice something in order to get back something.

Things have always been like this and will always be, it is how you want to see it, rather then seeing it from other's eyes. So the first thing that you need to understand is that you are willing to work on yourself rather than working for what other's think of you. Once you start knowing yourself you will find some talents that you never knew you had which could help you locate what you want to chase in life. Success is what everyone wants but the definition of success may vary with everyone and this variation is mainly because of our personalities and thinking.

You just need to realize this that there is no one better than you who can know yourself and understand your needs. Everyone can talk about success and successful people, it is with the one who keeps working on his goals that get their success. Most of us fail in life because we lack motivation and planning. Yes, motivation is important but planning is requirement because without setting up your boundaries and conditions you will end up in loops circling around your goals but never achieve it.

Make a lot of small goals and keep pushing yourself forward. Reward yourself with something for completing each of your goals and make a blueprint of your bigger goals that you want to achieve in life. The small goals will keep you motivated and it will push you beyond your limits while the bigger goals are the one's that will take time and smaller goals help you to achieve it.

PLAN IT BIG ENOUGH TO KEEP YOURSELF MOVING FORWARD.

Once you are done with planning and setting up your goal you will start understating yourself better than anyone and then you can achieve success at a higher rate. See everything through your eyes not blindly follow up some path. Keep learning about yourself and improve yourself everyday. It is you who will make all the difference to yourself and people around you.

Thanks.

The Real Characterstics Of Successful People

Do it now or it will never be done.

There has been quite a number of times when we really wanted to do something but before we even begin we just moved on to a different thought and regret  at a later stage. You know why you have not been successful because you haven't taken the steps yet and I am sure everyone has a dream that they want to grow but what is the real difference between a successful and an unsuccessful man. A successful man is willing to spend that extra time for his work, for his efforts, he never quits until he gets his job done but an unsuccessful man is the one who is bored, not willing to give that extra push and is negligent.

Successful people have these great characteristics. Let me list them one by one :


1. They control their Mind : If you have control of your thoughts and you have the power to control your mind, then there is nothing that is going to stop you from achieving your goals. A successful man has this quality, he controls his mind and thoughts. Once your mind starts creating the pictures of your success in your mind then you are already half way to your goals. Once the mind sees the pictures that you want, it will direct you towards it.

2. They are hard working : If you think a successful man is just being lucky, then you are wrong my friend. A successful man knows what hardworking can pay him off and that is why he is never afraid to give all of his efforts for achieving his goals. Sure there are lots of short cuts but remember the short cuts will eventually lead you in troubles. Never try to fall for any short cuts, it wont help you in any ways.

3. They are willing to sacrifice: Successful people are always willing to sacrifice that extra time they would have watched Tv or played football or anything and devote that time to their goal. In fact if you truly want to become successful you must even give up sleep because sometimes your sleep is also a major cause of your failures. You must be willing to sacrifice that one extra hour of sleep and ready to work.

4. They never give up: Many people are hard working and want to be successful but they lack patience. Winner never give up until they get what they have been working for but to many when the success is about to hit they, they simply quit. It's that one moment that can change your life forever but you must be willing to wait and not quit. Successful people never give up on their dreams and they constantly try to move up. They never think of quitting, instead they focus more with time and that is what makes the whole difference.

Get out of your comfort zone and you will then find the talent and ability that has been hidden inside you. You must be willing to leave your comfort zone and then only the magic can happen. Once you are out of your shell you will be astonished at how good you can be at something.

Good Luck with your Success!!!

The Role of Emotions in Life

I might have some experiences like everybody else but recently I had the best experience of my life. This was always with me but I never figured it out and many of us are unaware of this simple truth about life. What is it?

The Emotions! Yes we grow emotionally every day and it is due to this emotional nature of human being that we are constantly growing and reaching greater depths. Emotions can be anything from rage to happiness, from good to bad, from high to low's etc...but we never look back to track down why we had that particular emotion at that instant. Once you figure out your own emotions you are already one step closer to knowing yourself. Congratulations!!!

Now once you figure out how you behave, the next thing that needs to be done is controlling it. The best part about the control of emotions can be seen with Meditation. The amount to time you give to Meditation is the amount you know yourself better. So as simple as it may sound you can start discovering yourself right now.

Know your emotions and learn from them so that you can use them effectively. Now coming back to my story let me tell you how things were before I learned this simple truth about life that emotions can guide us to where we want to be. I was stubborn(I am still trying to get normal..), irrational and unaware of my situation. I literally had no idea where my life was heading and then one fine evening I decided to go to a party with a few of my friends and then after a few drinks I was presented with the best gift of my life- Criticism.

Never in my life I had realized that I had become so unrealistic that I started to ignore things and was happy with myself, with whatever I was getting and then it stuck me and it stuck me real hard when my own friends had lost faith in me, criticized me and told me that I was no good. This made me feel real bad and I mean it because I was about to take hard decision in my life. The more I thought about it the more i wanted to get rid of it, the words were not getting out of my head and then I made the decision to give up and end this miserable life.

The moment was very near I had made up my mind and then another thought stuck me that stopped me from doing what I was about to do. The same words of criticism now acted as barriers to not quit but to give my life a purpose and try again. I tell you this was one of the best moments I had in my life and I was so much happy about it.

I ended up with whatever nonsense I was doing with my life and started to establish a routine and a road map of where I would like to see myself someday. I know what I need to do now and soon it will be done and if not I will give it one more try and then one more....I have now more faith in myself, more confidence and I do not fear if I fail. Nothing matters to me now, I want to succeed and I will succeed.

I hope you to see you find your path soon.

Thanks for reading... 

Life as Maths Equation

I Love Maths and I know  a lot of people hate it. But what if I can tell you that you can make your life simple using maths. Yes!!! you read it absolutely correct that you can solve your life equation with maths.

Everybody dreams for a good life and that is fine until we are about to give up on it. Everything is achievable through innovation and ideas. Imagination is everything you need to create something. Most of us are so engrossed in doing things we don't like for those we don't like but still we compromise with life everyday.

Remember when we were given the simple equation like a=2a-3 and we could easily calculate the value of a. In a similar fashion you can solve life equations too. So what you need is a simple equation that can show you your life equation and then you just need to solve it your way to get the result. The only difference between maths and life equation is in the maths equation you will get the same result but in the life equation you may or may not get the same output. So the result is totally depended on you, on what choices you make and how you make it.


Being a student we all have come across a lot of maths equations and have solved a lot of them but why can't we solve our life problems with maths. Remember that "X" that use to give nightmares when we were not able to get the value of it but then there was someone who could easily solve the equation. So I started looking for solutions to life using maths and maths being one of the most important parts of my life this is what I got.

Suppose "X" is life , "Y" is time, "Z" is your passion with "D" being the distraction. Now using this I have derived this formula that is true for everybody.

                                      X = Z^Y-D

Now let us examine these values in detail.

For any equation to be balanced you need to know the value of each of the variables. Without understanding how to find these values you will not be able to find the true value of "X".

And like maths equations should be balanced..i.e...L.H.S=R.H.S, life also needs to be balanced. So to find the true value of "X" let us examine the factors on which life will depend on.

The 1st thing that will influence our life equation is passion i.e "Z". To find Z it might take you some time and if you still have not figured it out then my friend it's time that you start asking yourself what is that one thing that you want to do without second thoughts. If you have found your passion then its time to increase your Y. Yes, even though you might know what you are passionate about you might not succeed because you are not giving time to it. So X is directly proportional to Z and Y. The faster you find you passion and the more amount of time that you are willing to put into it the more effective will be the end result and that will last for long.

Now let us come to the final variable "D". This is very important because this is what will decide how much you are willing to put your passion and time to get your life. D is distraction and if you are able to minimize it (better to make it 0) then my friend you are just 1 step closer to your successful life. So D is inversely proportional to X which means the more disturbances the less stable life and the less disturbances the more simplified life.

Life is simple and the choice is all depended on you. First Find Z, increase Y and remove D, the result will be a simplified X.

I hope this helps you!!

Good Luck with solving your life equation. Make it count!!

Thanks for your time and I hope you did learn something valuable today. Please comment if you like.

Hello,

I know its hard to keep up with your daily work and focus on your blog but after the recent experiences what I have discovered is I can actually manage to keep writing my blogs without breaking my daily routine because this is something that I wanted to do for a long time.

I started writing on my blog long age and then suddenly I lost interest and then it happened again. So every time I tried to write I ended up either deleting the blog or just recreating it and then I realized that this is not helping me nor anyone.

A lot of my friends suggested me to invest a few hours on my blog every week and that should be absolutely be fine but still it was something that I could not do it. But I figured it out and now I know the reason why I was not getting interested in writing anymore?

I know it may sound a little crazy for you all but what I figured about myself was I was just looking at the number of visitors and how I could improve it but in fact I started blogging for a totally different reason which was just putting out my thoughts and experiences and that's it!!!. I never asked for anything more than this but then I met a few bloggers who were making money out of their blogs and I stared following them to start getting money, which was not my intention and when I saw that I was not making progress it always led me to frustration and in the end I would just delete the blog or recreate it in order to get more traffic.

My original idea of sharing my thoughts suddenly went off and all I wanted was money from my blog. Now that I have figured it out I am positive that I will be able to sure have a couple of hours on my blog and put my thoughts in here. I don't care about the figures any more and this has what made all the difference.

Yes!!! I know writing was my passion but I thought I had lost it until now. So Here I am trying to do what i actually wanted to do at the first place: Put my thoughts on my blog..That's it...Plain and Simple!! 

So I have decided to add a new post every Tuesday no matter what. This was one of my dreams that I would create a blog for myself and would share my ideas with other people.

So from now on you will surely get a post on my blog every TUESDAY!!!

Thanks.

Motivation in Life

There is only one and only one way to achieve what you have been struggling for and that is by keeping yourself motivated. It sounds easy but more than 90 percent of the people give up when they are about to get to their destination, its a fact and you might not agree with me but they have every bit of explanation to why they didn't achieve it. Winners never look for these excuses and they keep themselves focused and motivated. There is a 100 percent chance that you might fail in your attempts even after so much of struggle and motivation because what keeps you motivated is also a factor of your success rate. You can achieve anything but what is the right way to achieve anything? If your dream comes true but there is no one to appreciate or celebrate you end up getting nothing. So let me tell you the three things that will keep you motivated in the right way and that will assure your true success.

The three major defining factors for your motivation is : Friends, Family and Your Environment. Yes these are the things that will keep you motivated, keep you in the game. Lets talk about the first factor, Friends, yes they do play a very vital role in your life. Having a group of friends who cherish you, helps you smile and always believes in you are the friends you need for lifetime. The bond of friendship is something which will give you the strength to move forward and make your dreams come true. They will give you immense strength and motivation for your goals. 48% of the motivation comes from these good friends of you, you are inspired by them.

The next factor is family, which accounts for more than 30% of your total motivation. A supportive family will always boost up your confidence level and you earn the respect of your family. Your family will love you no matter what but you need to earn the respect from them. They will support you and give you confidence and motivation for your big dreams. Celebrating your success with your friends and family cannot be matched with anything else in this world. You are happy and you are making everyone happy around you, just by following your dreams. You family will be proud of you and you are the sole reason for doing that. With your family's love and support you are sure to being a successful person.

The third and final factor of motivation is Your Environment. This accounts for the rest of the motivation percentage i.e about 22% and which is  very important and here is why its important that the other two. You do not choose your family or you do not always have a good friend circle but you can choose your environment, which makes this factor important in your life. The kind of environment you want to live is your choice but its really hard to come out of your comfort zone and leave your environment and change it. Once you get out the system and change your environment you will find the talent and skill that will help you reach your success, that will boost up your confidence even more and will keep you motivated.

Remember its the tiniest thing that matters, so if you are not able to change your environment change one thing at a time, there's really no hurry unless you want to give up. The small changes will eventually lead to the big ones and these small changes will give you the confidence to come out of your shell and challenge the world. It's said "The best challenge that you can give to anyone is yourself" and by far its the greatest line I have came across my life and that has changed my life drastically over the period of my life. I am more than happy, I love my work and I am continuously motivated by what I do. I challenge myself everyday and everyday life gives me new challenges and I smile broadly and say "Comon! Lets see what you got today".

I might go on and on with this but what you really need to know is what you want to achieve and how to want to achieve it. You can struggle all your life and end up no where or you can fulfill your dreams, the choice is always your's and you got to choose where you want to go. Motivation can give you strength to fight for your dreams but you need to have one. Find that dream and work for that dream. Once you start working for your dreams things will follow up, that will give you inspiration and  motivation to go on but you need to believe in what you dream. There's a very thin line between your achieving your success and quitting. Look for the reason to keep you focused and motivated towards your dream and soon you will achieve it.

I will end up with this simple thought "Life is all about Change and Change is always for good."

The true secret to Happiness

Hey there! Are you happy? If you feel "YES" then this post is really not for you. But if the answer is "NO" read this post completely and you might be able to find what happiness is and how you can achieve it. First thing first, you need to honestly ask yourself if you are happy or not and if you feel a little bit that yes you are not on the line then read my post and I might be able to help you with your happiness.

So what is happiness and why do you need it? Is it important in your everyday life? Is it important for the society? Ok, lets start with what is happiness, its a state of the mind that depends on the social and emotional level of the person. So happiness is something that you can feel not find. And yes its really important for an individual to be happy for himself and the society. A happy human being brings happiness to the society. So its very important to be happy and to make others happy.

Today I am going to tell you the secret of happiness and how you can pursue it. Its very simple, first you got to get out of the delusional world where you have been living and find out what your passion is and are you moving in the right direction to achieve your big goal. Sometimes we give so much importance to the big goals that we forget to celebrate the small things, happiness is in small things and let me tell you how. You got a promotion, you won a lottery, you achieved any of your big goals, etc..and these are some of your big goals but how many days can you be happy on these big goals, 10days, 20, 50 , and soon it will fade and you will find yourself in the position that you are not happy after you have achieved your big goal. Never make the big goals so important that you stop enjoying your everyday life.

Life is a gift and you learn a lot everyday but what you want to take with you to the next day depends on how you actually perform today. Happiness is or was a big goal or a dream, its a state of the mind that you can feel and you need to be positive about it. Once you start getting to know your passion and work in the right direction every thing will fall in place and life will be much much easier, it always has been. We make life complicated, we make it hard on ourself to be happy, we are responsible for our happiness. The day you start believing in yourself is the day when you actually start your journey. Life without a dream and a passion is useless. You can achieve anything but you need to be willing to put yourself in the journey of your life. Without being "YOU" in your life there is literally no journey at all. You become what you dream, dream big but learn to enjoy the everyday happiness.

Now let me tell you how you can achieve your true happiness. True happiness is when you feel you have done something for yourself and for your society, for the world. In other words true happiness is when you have earned your success, yes you need to earn your success and not found it. Thousands of people try to find their success on the wrong road because they have not earned their success, they just found it. So earn your success and to do that you need to think about the actions that you are talking, the work you are doing, if you are taking the right actions doing enough work for the society then you have earned your success. You never count your success in terms of money and let me explain you why. Money is never the reason for being successful, yes, this is true. Money may give you happiness but that won't last long, the success that you have earned will give you true happiness.
So, learn to earn your success and have a positive frame of mind.

There are lots of things in your life but you should always cherish and love your friends and family, as no one is going to love you, support you like the way your friends and family do for you. Never forget that they are the true motivators for your life and you start earning your success right from your home. Everybody can be happy with their life but you need to first believe in yourself and second earn your success. There are these simple things that will give you happiness that you carry to your next day. Being yourself and doing good for the society will make you feel happy. It's said that if you are happy you see the world happy, and if you are sad you get the same sadness from the world. So you get what you give. Learn to give happiness and in return you will find the true happiness in you.

So I will end with this simple thought "There can only be two types of days: Good Days and Great Days."

Learn to be happy

There is nothing in this world that will give you happiness and there is every thing in this world that will make you happy but the whole thing depends on what you define as happiness for you. Yes happiness has different meaning for everyone and everyday. Someday you are happy because got a new job, some other day be you are happy because of getting a promotion and likewise. So it all depends on the state of mind and the things that you want to achieve in life. If you ask me a simple hug or call from my dear ones makes me happy. There are lots of things that happen to us and how we take it and react to it makes us happy or sad. There are days when we are happy almost all of the day and there are times when everything goes wrong, nothing works out and day gets worse and worse. But its nothing like the day was wrong because of someone or something, your life is fully depended on how you react to everyday things.

A positive attitude in life will always keep you happy and you will be more focused rather than tensed and unsatisfied. Look around you, you will find a lots and lots of people around you but you are attracted to the ones that have similar behavior as you possess. This is logical because you see the poor and needy everyday but you understand and help them very often. When was the last time you something for anyone? When was the last time you did something good for you? When was the last time you had a good laugh with your friends? Ask yourself these questions if the answer is yes then there is no reason to be sad, you are happy and have a sound mind. A disturbed mind cannot function properly and thus being happy is very much necessary for you. The day you start enjoying every day and start learning from everyday, leading you towards that big goal of yours, you will find it is how simple life can be. We our self make it complicated and unhappy. Stop blaming others or your situation or anyone, NOBODY IS RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR LIFE, EXCEPT YOU.

You are sole responsible for your life and you have all the rights to blame yourself. If you want to get happy nobody can stop you. You just need the right energy and positive attitude towards your life. You can find happiness in anything and everything. Drop some plans, take some holidays, enjoy the nature, explore your world, understand your life and know yourself. Understanding yourself will make you more happy and you will reach a deeper understanding of your life. There is happiness everywhere, you don't even need a reason to be happy, why should you. You life is not perfect than whose life is ? If you think your life is going to be as you have planned then remember there is nothing more than what life has planned for you, let life surprise you everyday. There is nothing good outside when you do not feel good inside of you. You need to understand this simple thing about life that LIFE WILL ALWAYS BE GOOD, AS LONG AS YOU KEEP IT NATURAL.

You might remember when you were young, you hardly went anywhere without some of your friends, you always needed a company and that was fun. Friends make life easier but you need to share, you get back only if you give first. YOU GIVE LOVE, YOU GET LOVE. The joy of giving is something that cannot be matched with anything, anything at all. The small glimpse of happiness when you helped someone, the relief when someone hugs you, the feeling of being loved. These are things that are priceless and no matter you are rich or poor you cannot buy this, you earn your happiness. Nobody gives you any happiness until you start giving yourself and others. Believe that there is good in this world and do good, it will gradually come back to you. I have seen people who are always happy and I have also seen people who think there is nothing good in this world, they are sad, depressed, lonely and unsocial. MEET THE WORLD AND THEN SEE THE UNIVERSE MEETS YOU BACK.

There is happiness in you, get to it and stop cursing your life. You are as happy as you think but you need to feel that and not just put in words. the best thing in life is enjoyed with friends and family. A good dinner without anyone is useless, a good book without any readers is waste, a good movie without any audience is of no use, similarly a good life without happiness is just waste. Learning the art of happiness is very important in life because no matter what you achieve if there is nobody to cheer you up, what good is to be successful. We often take money as a reason to be happy but believe me there is nothing that can buy you happiness. People are good to you until you are good to them and yes people do change and people do move on with their life. Life is a journey and you can't stay back move ahead, you have lots of things to cherish than to mourn on your past. What is gone, is gone for good and what will come will always be great! Remember Change is necessity of life and change is always good, take it positively. You can be the master of your life or you can just be life's slave, choice has always been with you. YOU CREATE YOUR HAPPINESS, TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE.

5 Great Ways To Achieve Instant Happiness!!!

Happiness is nothing but a state of mind but how often do we achieve this state of mind. Everyday we wake up, do a lot of things but does that really make us happy ? How often have you noticed that the day was just perfect, everything was just fantastic? Very few...But there are ways to get instant happiness and be active all the day.


There are these small things that you can do everyday and see profound increase in your happiness. You need to listen to that inner child of yours that always guides you, listen to that voice and you will never go wrong. Instant Happiness is good for everyone but very few choose to be happy. Yes the choice of being happy always lies with you. You just need to say "Yes I am Happy Today", and that's all you will be happy all day, it is as simple as that.


Here are give you 5 Great ways of achieving that happiness instantly.



1. Smile: Yes! my friend smile. This simple gesture is one of the best ways of being happy. You will always find people smiling and if you smile back you feel happy, same is for others. You just need to say expand some of your muscles and there you are smiling and do not worry what others think, everyone looks funny when they smile. So just forget everything else and smile. Make this your habit and smile all the time that you give you instant happiness. If you do not believe me look at the mirror and fake a smile and suddenly it becomes a natural smile. Try this and you will find how easy it is to smile. So the simplest and the most effective way of getting instant happiness is to smile. 



2. Exercise : Exercise not only keeps you healthy but also makes you happy. Weather its a jogging in the morning or hitting the gym you feel happy when you exercise. Exercise helps you relax and focus, plus keeps your body in shape and who does not love to be in shape. You see your self in shape and you smile at yourself...oh yeah...Exercise not only keeps you healthy physically but also mentally. You have positive thoughts and  emotions when you do exercise you become healthy and fit, that can do a lot of positive changes in your life.



3. Meditate: Meditation can have tremendous effect on your life if you do it regularly. You just need 10-15 minutes of meditation everyday and you will feel your soul relaxed. Once you have achieved that state of mind you are happy all the time, people get attracted to you more easily, you meet more positive people and everything goes smoothly in life. You want instant happiness, sit in silence for 5 minutes with your eyes closed and relax, open your eyes to see the world happy again. Meditation is a great way to achieve instant happiness. Try it now.



4. Play With Your Pets: Pets are a great way to achieve instant happiness because they are always ready to play with you. When you play with your pets you become a child yourself and who can be happier than a child. Playing with your pets also makes you more connected to them and they love you more. So spending sometime playing with your pets can also make you happy instantly.



5. Leave Your Comfort Zone: I know it sounds like hard but its really simple. You will have to push yourself a little initially but then the amount of things you will discover about yourself will make you happier than you have before. Getting out of your comfort zone will make you happy and you will also discover some talents that you might have not noticed before.


There are a lot more simple things that you can do in your daily life that will make you happy. Listen to that inner child in you and you won't regret about anything in your life. Do something for others and keep smiling!!!!