Motivation in Life

There is only one and only one way to achieve what you have been struggling for and that is by keeping yourself motivated. It sounds easy but more than 90 percent of the people give up when they are about to get to their destination, its a fact and you might not agree with me but they have every bit of explanation to why they didn't achieve it. Winners never look for these excuses and they keep themselves focused and motivated. There is a 100 percent chance that you might fail in your attempts even after so much of struggle and motivation because what keeps you motivated is also a factor of your success rate. You can achieve anything but what is the right way to achieve anything? If your dream comes true but there is no one to appreciate or celebrate you end up getting nothing. So let me tell you the three things that will keep you motivated in the right way and that will assure your true success.

The three major defining factors for your motivation is : Friends, Family and Your Environment. Yes these are the things that will keep you motivated, keep you in the game. Lets talk about the first factor, Friends, yes they do play a very vital role in your life. Having a group of friends who cherish you, helps you smile and always believes in you are the friends you need for lifetime. The bond of friendship is something which will give you the strength to move forward and make your dreams come true. They will give you immense strength and motivation for your goals. 48% of the motivation comes from these good friends of you, you are inspired by them.

The next factor is family, which accounts for more than 30% of your total motivation. A supportive family will always boost up your confidence level and you earn the respect of your family. Your family will love you no matter what but you need to earn the respect from them. They will support you and give you confidence and motivation for your big dreams. Celebrating your success with your friends and family cannot be matched with anything else in this world. You are happy and you are making everyone happy around you, just by following your dreams. You family will be proud of you and you are the sole reason for doing that. With your family's love and support you are sure to being a successful person.

The third and final factor of motivation is Your Environment. This accounts for the rest of the motivation percentage i.e about 22% and which is  very important and here is why its important that the other two. You do not choose your family or you do not always have a good friend circle but you can choose your environment, which makes this factor important in your life. The kind of environment you want to live is your choice but its really hard to come out of your comfort zone and leave your environment and change it. Once you get out the system and change your environment you will find the talent and skill that will help you reach your success, that will boost up your confidence even more and will keep you motivated.

Remember its the tiniest thing that matters, so if you are not able to change your environment change one thing at a time, there's really no hurry unless you want to give up. The small changes will eventually lead to the big ones and these small changes will give you the confidence to come out of your shell and challenge the world. It's said "The best challenge that you can give to anyone is yourself" and by far its the greatest line I have came across my life and that has changed my life drastically over the period of my life. I am more than happy, I love my work and I am continuously motivated by what I do. I challenge myself everyday and everyday life gives me new challenges and I smile broadly and say "Comon! Lets see what you got today".

I might go on and on with this but what you really need to know is what you want to achieve and how to want to achieve it. You can struggle all your life and end up no where or you can fulfill your dreams, the choice is always your's and you got to choose where you want to go. Motivation can give you strength to fight for your dreams but you need to have one. Find that dream and work for that dream. Once you start working for your dreams things will follow up, that will give you inspiration and  motivation to go on but you need to believe in what you dream. There's a very thin line between your achieving your success and quitting. Look for the reason to keep you focused and motivated towards your dream and soon you will achieve it.

I will end up with this simple thought "Life is all about Change and Change is always for good."

The true secret to Happiness

Hey there! Are you happy? If you feel "YES" then this post is really not for you. But if the answer is "NO" read this post completely and you might be able to find what happiness is and how you can achieve it. First thing first, you need to honestly ask yourself if you are happy or not and if you feel a little bit that yes you are not on the line then read my post and I might be able to help you with your happiness.

So what is happiness and why do you need it? Is it important in your everyday life? Is it important for the society? Ok, lets start with what is happiness, its a state of the mind that depends on the social and emotional level of the person. So happiness is something that you can feel not find. And yes its really important for an individual to be happy for himself and the society. A happy human being brings happiness to the society. So its very important to be happy and to make others happy.

Today I am going to tell you the secret of happiness and how you can pursue it. Its very simple, first you got to get out of the delusional world where you have been living and find out what your passion is and are you moving in the right direction to achieve your big goal. Sometimes we give so much importance to the big goals that we forget to celebrate the small things, happiness is in small things and let me tell you how. You got a promotion, you won a lottery, you achieved any of your big goals, etc..and these are some of your big goals but how many days can you be happy on these big goals, 10days, 20, 50 , and soon it will fade and you will find yourself in the position that you are not happy after you have achieved your big goal. Never make the big goals so important that you stop enjoying your everyday life.

Life is a gift and you learn a lot everyday but what you want to take with you to the next day depends on how you actually perform today. Happiness is or was a big goal or a dream, its a state of the mind that you can feel and you need to be positive about it. Once you start getting to know your passion and work in the right direction every thing will fall in place and life will be much much easier, it always has been. We make life complicated, we make it hard on ourself to be happy, we are responsible for our happiness. The day you start believing in yourself is the day when you actually start your journey. Life without a dream and a passion is useless. You can achieve anything but you need to be willing to put yourself in the journey of your life. Without being "YOU" in your life there is literally no journey at all. You become what you dream, dream big but learn to enjoy the everyday happiness.

Now let me tell you how you can achieve your true happiness. True happiness is when you feel you have done something for yourself and for your society, for the world. In other words true happiness is when you have earned your success, yes you need to earn your success and not found it. Thousands of people try to find their success on the wrong road because they have not earned their success, they just found it. So earn your success and to do that you need to think about the actions that you are talking, the work you are doing, if you are taking the right actions doing enough work for the society then you have earned your success. You never count your success in terms of money and let me explain you why. Money is never the reason for being successful, yes, this is true. Money may give you happiness but that won't last long, the success that you have earned will give you true happiness.
So, learn to earn your success and have a positive frame of mind.

There are lots of things in your life but you should always cherish and love your friends and family, as no one is going to love you, support you like the way your friends and family do for you. Never forget that they are the true motivators for your life and you start earning your success right from your home. Everybody can be happy with their life but you need to first believe in yourself and second earn your success. There are these simple things that will give you happiness that you carry to your next day. Being yourself and doing good for the society will make you feel happy. It's said that if you are happy you see the world happy, and if you are sad you get the same sadness from the world. So you get what you give. Learn to give happiness and in return you will find the true happiness in you.

So I will end with this simple thought "There can only be two types of days: Good Days and Great Days."

Learn to be happy

There is nothing in this world that will give you happiness and there is every thing in this world that will make you happy but the whole thing depends on what you define as happiness for you. Yes happiness has different meaning for everyone and everyday. Someday you are happy because got a new job, some other day be you are happy because of getting a promotion and likewise. So it all depends on the state of mind and the things that you want to achieve in life. If you ask me a simple hug or call from my dear ones makes me happy. There are lots of things that happen to us and how we take it and react to it makes us happy or sad. There are days when we are happy almost all of the day and there are times when everything goes wrong, nothing works out and day gets worse and worse. But its nothing like the day was wrong because of someone or something, your life is fully depended on how you react to everyday things.

A positive attitude in life will always keep you happy and you will be more focused rather than tensed and unsatisfied. Look around you, you will find a lots and lots of people around you but you are attracted to the ones that have similar behavior as you possess. This is logical because you see the poor and needy everyday but you understand and help them very often. When was the last time you something for anyone? When was the last time you did something good for you? When was the last time you had a good laugh with your friends? Ask yourself these questions if the answer is yes then there is no reason to be sad, you are happy and have a sound mind. A disturbed mind cannot function properly and thus being happy is very much necessary for you. The day you start enjoying every day and start learning from everyday, leading you towards that big goal of yours, you will find it is how simple life can be. We our self make it complicated and unhappy. Stop blaming others or your situation or anyone, NOBODY IS RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR LIFE, EXCEPT YOU.

You are sole responsible for your life and you have all the rights to blame yourself. If you want to get happy nobody can stop you. You just need the right energy and positive attitude towards your life. You can find happiness in anything and everything. Drop some plans, take some holidays, enjoy the nature, explore your world, understand your life and know yourself. Understanding yourself will make you more happy and you will reach a deeper understanding of your life. There is happiness everywhere, you don't even need a reason to be happy, why should you. You life is not perfect than whose life is ? If you think your life is going to be as you have planned then remember there is nothing more than what life has planned for you, let life surprise you everyday. There is nothing good outside when you do not feel good inside of you. You need to understand this simple thing about life that LIFE WILL ALWAYS BE GOOD, AS LONG AS YOU KEEP IT NATURAL.

You might remember when you were young, you hardly went anywhere without some of your friends, you always needed a company and that was fun. Friends make life easier but you need to share, you get back only if you give first. YOU GIVE LOVE, YOU GET LOVE. The joy of giving is something that cannot be matched with anything, anything at all. The small glimpse of happiness when you helped someone, the relief when someone hugs you, the feeling of being loved. These are things that are priceless and no matter you are rich or poor you cannot buy this, you earn your happiness. Nobody gives you any happiness until you start giving yourself and others. Believe that there is good in this world and do good, it will gradually come back to you. I have seen people who are always happy and I have also seen people who think there is nothing good in this world, they are sad, depressed, lonely and unsocial. MEET THE WORLD AND THEN SEE THE UNIVERSE MEETS YOU BACK.

There is happiness in you, get to it and stop cursing your life. You are as happy as you think but you need to feel that and not just put in words. the best thing in life is enjoyed with friends and family. A good dinner without anyone is useless, a good book without any readers is waste, a good movie without any audience is of no use, similarly a good life without happiness is just waste. Learning the art of happiness is very important in life because no matter what you achieve if there is nobody to cheer you up, what good is to be successful. We often take money as a reason to be happy but believe me there is nothing that can buy you happiness. People are good to you until you are good to them and yes people do change and people do move on with their life. Life is a journey and you can't stay back move ahead, you have lots of things to cherish than to mourn on your past. What is gone, is gone for good and what will come will always be great! Remember Change is necessity of life and change is always good, take it positively. You can be the master of your life or you can just be life's slave, choice has always been with you. YOU CREATE YOUR HAPPINESS, TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE.

5 Great Ways To Achieve Instant Happiness!!!

Happiness is nothing but a state of mind but how often do we achieve this state of mind. Everyday we wake up, do a lot of things but does that really make us happy ? How often have you noticed that the day was just perfect, everything was just fantastic? Very few...But there are ways to get instant happiness and be active all the day.


There are these small things that you can do everyday and see profound increase in your happiness. You need to listen to that inner child of yours that always guides you, listen to that voice and you will never go wrong. Instant Happiness is good for everyone but very few choose to be happy. Yes the choice of being happy always lies with you. You just need to say "Yes I am Happy Today", and that's all you will be happy all day, it is as simple as that.


Here are give you 5 Great ways of achieving that happiness instantly.



1. Smile: Yes! my friend smile. This simple gesture is one of the best ways of being happy. You will always find people smiling and if you smile back you feel happy, same is for others. You just need to say expand some of your muscles and there you are smiling and do not worry what others think, everyone looks funny when they smile. So just forget everything else and smile. Make this your habit and smile all the time that you give you instant happiness. If you do not believe me look at the mirror and fake a smile and suddenly it becomes a natural smile. Try this and you will find how easy it is to smile. So the simplest and the most effective way of getting instant happiness is to smile. 



2. Exercise : Exercise not only keeps you healthy but also makes you happy. Weather its a jogging in the morning or hitting the gym you feel happy when you exercise. Exercise helps you relax and focus, plus keeps your body in shape and who does not love to be in shape. You see your self in shape and you smile at yourself...oh yeah...Exercise not only keeps you healthy physically but also mentally. You have positive thoughts and  emotions when you do exercise you become healthy and fit, that can do a lot of positive changes in your life.



3. Meditate: Meditation can have tremendous effect on your life if you do it regularly. You just need 10-15 minutes of meditation everyday and you will feel your soul relaxed. Once you have achieved that state of mind you are happy all the time, people get attracted to you more easily, you meet more positive people and everything goes smoothly in life. You want instant happiness, sit in silence for 5 minutes with your eyes closed and relax, open your eyes to see the world happy again. Meditation is a great way to achieve instant happiness. Try it now.



4. Play With Your Pets: Pets are a great way to achieve instant happiness because they are always ready to play with you. When you play with your pets you become a child yourself and who can be happier than a child. Playing with your pets also makes you more connected to them and they love you more. So spending sometime playing with your pets can also make you happy instantly.



5. Leave Your Comfort Zone: I know it sounds like hard but its really simple. You will have to push yourself a little initially but then the amount of things you will discover about yourself will make you happier than you have before. Getting out of your comfort zone will make you happy and you will also discover some talents that you might have not noticed before.


There are a lot more simple things that you can do in your daily life that will make you happy. Listen to that inner child in you and you won't regret about anything in your life. Do something for others and keep smiling!!!!