Saturday, September 20, 2014

Learn to be happy

There is nothing in this world that will give you happiness and there is every thing in this world that will make you happy but the whole thing depends on what you define as happiness for you. Yes happiness has different meaning for everyone and everyday. Someday you are happy because got a new job, some other day be you are happy because of getting a promotion and likewise. So it all depends on the state of mind and the things that you want to achieve in life. If you ask me a simple hug or call from my dear ones makes me happy. There are lots of things that happen to us and how we take it and react to it makes us happy or sad. There are days when we are happy almost all of the day and there are times when everything goes wrong, nothing works out and day gets worse and worse. But its nothing like the day was wrong because of someone or something, your life is fully depended on how you react to everyday things.

A positive attitude in life will always keep you happy and you will be more focused rather than tensed and unsatisfied. Look around you, you will find a lots and lots of people around you but you are attracted to the ones that have similar behavior as you possess. This is logical because you see the poor and needy everyday but you understand and help them very often. When was the last time you something for anyone? When was the last time you did something good for you? When was the last time you had a good laugh with your friends? Ask yourself these questions if the answer is yes then there is no reason to be sad, you are happy and have a sound mind. A disturbed mind cannot function properly and thus being happy is very much necessary for you. The day you start enjoying every day and start learning from everyday, leading you towards that big goal of yours, you will find it is how simple life can be. We our self make it complicated and unhappy. Stop blaming others or your situation or anyone, NOBODY IS RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR LIFE, EXCEPT YOU.

You are sole responsible for your life and you have all the rights to blame yourself. If you want to get happy nobody can stop you. You just need the right energy and positive attitude towards your life. You can find happiness in anything and everything. Drop some plans, take some holidays, enjoy the nature, explore your world, understand your life and know yourself. Understanding yourself will make you more happy and you will reach a deeper understanding of your life. There is happiness everywhere, you don't even need a reason to be happy, why should you. You life is not perfect than whose life is ? If you think your life is going to be as you have planned then remember there is nothing more than what life has planned for you, let life surprise you everyday. There is nothing good outside when you do not feel good inside of you. You need to understand this simple thing about life that LIFE WILL ALWAYS BE GOOD, AS LONG AS YOU KEEP IT NATURAL.

You might remember when you were young, you hardly went anywhere without some of your friends, you always needed a company and that was fun. Friends make life easier but you need to share, you get back only if you give first. YOU GIVE LOVE, YOU GET LOVE. The joy of giving is something that cannot be matched with anything, anything at all. The small glimpse of happiness when you helped someone, the relief when someone hugs you, the feeling of being loved. These are things that are priceless and no matter you are rich or poor you cannot buy this, you earn your happiness. Nobody gives you any happiness until you start giving yourself and others. Believe that there is good in this world and do good, it will gradually come back to you. I have seen people who are always happy and I have also seen people who think there is nothing good in this world, they are sad, depressed, lonely and unsocial. MEET THE WORLD AND THEN SEE THE UNIVERSE MEETS YOU BACK.

There is happiness in you, get to it and stop cursing your life. You are as happy as you think but you need to feel that and not just put in words. the best thing in life is enjoyed with friends and family. A good dinner without anyone is useless, a good book without any readers is waste, a good movie without any audience is of no use, similarly a good life without happiness is just waste. Learning the art of happiness is very important in life because no matter what you achieve if there is nobody to cheer you up, what good is to be successful. We often take money as a reason to be happy but believe me there is nothing that can buy you happiness. People are good to you until you are good to them and yes people do change and people do move on with their life. Life is a journey and you can't stay back move ahead, you have lots of things to cherish than to mourn on your past. What is gone, is gone for good and what will come will always be great! Remember Change is necessity of life and change is always good, take it positively. You can be the master of your life or you can just be life's slave, choice has always been with you. YOU CREATE YOUR HAPPINESS, TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE.


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  1. One powerful way on how to achieve happiness in life is to think positively. One thought at a time does wonders for a person's morale.

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